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IN MEMORIAM

Daytime Stars Pay Tribute To DAYS’s Drake Hogestyn (John)

drake hogestyn in pictures with kristian alfonso, alison sweeney and eileen davidson.

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Hogestyn with (from l.) Kristian Alfonso (Hope), Alison Sweeney (Sami) and Eileen Davidson (ex-Kristen/Susan; Ashley, Y&R).

Those who knew and loved him are posting tributes on social media in honor of Days of Our Lives star Drake Hogestyn (John), whose recent passing has shocked and devastated the daytime community. Here are a smattering of those tributes, which will be updated regularly. For a look back on Hogestyn’s life and career in photos, click here.

 

DAYS Co-Stars Tributes

Stephen Nichols (Steve): “My dear friend, Drake Hogestyn has passed. This loss is overwhelming. Drake was a man’s man with a huge heart. He was kind, respectful and honest. I never heard him speak a negative word about anyone. He was on a very short list of exceptional people I have known in my lifetime. He was a mentor without knowing it. I learned so much from Drake by his example. Humility, perseverance, forgiveness. We had long talks in his dressing room after working on our scenes. He spoke so lovingly about his beautiful family who he cherished above all else. Drake would tell me about his history, playing baseball, coming to Hollywood, getting into acting. He also shared triumphs and a few heartaches having to do with his long career on Days with such honesty. I felt privileged to be a sounding board, to have his trust. And he had mine. I could tell him anything; and recently when I was going through a rough time when I lost my sister to cancer, he was there for me and he listened and asked how I was doing daily. Drake was a storyteller. Ask anyone around the studio. He could spin a tale, and he remembered his adventures in such detail and always throwing in baseball metaphors whenever he could. Drake loved his time as a ballplayer. And on our Days softball team he was, of course, our star player. Drake and I began our working relationship in 1986. No one hit the stage with more commitment and enthusiasm than Drake. He inspired and energized me and everyone around him. He loved coming to work and showed up early to workout in the wee hours of the morning. I’ll miss hearing the whirring of his stationary bike and the clanging of dumbbells-we were dressing room neighbors. Just being in Drake’s presence was enough to get a jolt of positivity. He was one of those special souls who exuded joy and love for life. The Days of Our Lives cast, crew, and fans (who he was always so kind to) have suffered a great loss. It has been palpable how much Drake was loved and has been missed during these months without him at the studio. I kept in close touch with Drake throughout his illness and even through his darkest times he always threw in an optimistic phrase like … “not much positive to report, but I still believe in Santa.” Drake fought hard. That’s who he was. A man with an iron will, who would not give up. In the fictional town of Salem, we were partners in Black Patch Private Investigations. In life we were good buddies who always had each other’s backs. I’m at a loss without you, Drake. I will always remember our long talks about our families and our “out of body experiences.” I’ll miss your sweet smile and your greeting, “Hey, partner, come on in” when I knocked on your door to run our scenes, and your strong shoulder squeezes and pats on the back. And God knows, I will miss sharing the stage with you. You worked hard and left us a legacy of beautiful work. Rest easy, partner. I’ll always love you and I’ll never forget what a positive impact you’ve had on my life. That’s a fact. My love and condolences to Victoria and his beloved family.”

Susan Seaforth Hayes (Julie): “Drake was the easy going hero every woman hopes to cross her path in crisis or romance. Drake was the buddy every man hopes to never lose. Drake always gave his best. One of those Days icons that kept America tuning in for 60 years. And let me tell you fans and friends, his Salem cast mates were his greatest fans of all ❤️ #DrakeHogestyn

Alison Sweeney (Sami): “Drake was an incredible man. He was funny, generous and thoughtful. He cared about every single scene, every person. He loved Days, the fans, and shared that passion with everyone on set. My heart breaks for his family, they meant everything to him. He was such a huge part of my life at Days. I will miss him terribly and treasure every story, every joke & every hug.”

Christie Clark (ex-Carrie): “To say I was one of the lucky ones is an understatement. Drake (aka Hoagie) was simply one of the best people I’ve ever met.
I was essentially raised by Drake on the set of Days of our lives! He was my TV dad, who became my second real father. Being guided, nurtured, and taught by this man on set makes me feel incredibly fortunate. It’s astonishing how he took so many others under his wing. Drake had unmatched energy and made time for everyone. He gave all the crew and cast the same enthusiasm, creating a wonderful atmosphere on set! When he spoke to you, he truly listened and absorbed every word. If you told him a joke, he’d remember it for years. His collection of jokes and stories was unrivaled. Drake radiated light and positivity, crafting the beautiful life he had outside of work. Victoria and Drake loved each other deeply! That’s why he was so enjoyable to watch and became a fan favorite, along with Dee Hall. The audience felt his warmth and goodness and wanted more. Sending massive healing thoughts to his beautiful family, of whom he was so unbelievably proud: Victoria, Whitney, Rachel, Ben, Alexandra, their new spouses, and all his fabulous new grandbabies! It was all for you! Drake, I’ll always be your little pumpkin! I’m grateful to know I have a true angel looking out for me.”

Martha Madison (Belle): “Today, the world lost a great man, Salem lost its greatest hero, and I lost one of my favorite scene partners. With a heart full of baseball, Drake was the embodiment of team spirit and mentored so many of us at #Days like a true team Captain. He was also a cheerleader. One of my favorite memories of Drake was from not too long ago. He knew I was super nervous as I was preparing to deliver a five page deathbed monologue, and after we finished the scene (both soaked in tears and snot), he gave me a huge hug and whispered, ‘Kid, it was like that moment when you hear the crack of the bat against a long ball that flies into the stands and the crowd goes wild.’ I always knew if I was working with him that I would need to spend a little extra time on my scene prep. He was always off book and word perfect, and in 20 years I don’t think I ever remember him holding a script. More than that, he was always ready to play. He loved diving into our father/daughter dynamics, and there was no place I could go in a scene where he wasn’t exactly right there with me. Drake was full of enthusiasm and humor and aways told the most amazing stories. He loved being an actor and always showed grace and gratitude when it came to his work and his fans. He loved his family deeply and was over the moon to be a Grandfather. I’m sending my deepest sympathies to his family and to all of the cast, crew and fans who have loved him for decades. #RIP ❤️🕊️ @drakehogestyn”

Judi Evans (Bonnie; ex-Adrienne): “It bears repeating, Drake always told the best stories. A kind and gentle person, we’d always have a laugh when we were working together, often laughing until my sides hurt. I remember, back in the 80s, there was a flirtation between ‘Roman’ and Adrienne when we worked together at the construction company, and Drake had to dance around ‘constructing’ in a sweaty tank top to the song ‘Macho Man’… in Salem… in the winter. He was hilarious and approached it with gusto and happy enthusiasm, as he did everything. He was a man who took his work seriously, but never himself. He was always game for anything and such a joy to be around. He made the world around him a funnier, better, sweeter place… the light will never be as bright again… And he was a Yankee! I was a fan from the minute I met him ❤️⚾️”

Kristian Alfonso (Hope): “My❤️I’ll always remember u as a Loving father,husband&Dear friend but mostly an incredible passionate human being,generous &immensely kind,Always..Thank U4 the loveU gave us all everyday Drake on set&off Uwere always our hero. LoveU Rest in peace my sweet friend.”

James Reynolds (Abe): “Drake was my friend and cast mate, and I’m grateful for the moments we shared. Our love to Victoria and their family. [Wife] Lissa and I share your loss.”

Eric Martsolf (Brady): “This shot [Martsolf posted of himself with Hogestyn] was taken fairly early in my Days career; uncertain of my place within the historic family and so anxious to ‘fit in’. He placed his hand on my shoulder, as he would for the next 16 years as my tv Dad, and said ‘you got this kid.’ He ingratiated me into his soap opera family instantly, and was a big reason why I have made it my home to this day. His kindness, storytelling, and studliness is still unmatched. He was a man who wasn’t afraid to ‘feel’ and emote, a worthy lesson for all fathers to pass along. Our hallways at DOOL will never be the same without him strolling through them. I was honored to portray his son, and will continue to emulate his work ethic and spirit. The world will miss him, and I will continue to feel his hand on my shoulder always. God bless you, Drake.”

Lauren Koslow (Kate): “Good-night, sweet prince; And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. Drake, We will miss you forever and a day . We -friends,cast mates , crew & loyal fans , anyone who crossed your path – were touched by your joyful & passionate zest for life. Your courage. Your compassion. We admired your deep respect for your craft . We appreciated your leadership during hectic times. We saw your fulfillment in your abounding love & devotion for your beautiful Victoria , your children & family . Our hero on and off screen , a man’s man, a woman’s friend, You lit up every space with your presence, your laughter , positivity, & undeniable beauty …. And of course , your unparalleled storytelling. You shared your grace, kind heart , professionalism & passion for your art with us all and we are all better for it Sharing the stage with you was an honor & delight . definitely some of my favorite scenes EVER … Lastly thank you for all the gardening advice, horse & dog stories, kids & grand baby chats and the best ,deep down the rabbit hole kind of conversations that will stay with me forever .❤️💔❤️💔🥰 Blessed to know you, my friend.”

Melissa Reeves (Jennifer): “Heartbroken is the condition of our hearts hearing of Drakes passing. Also blessed and grateful to know such a wonderful man. Thank you Drake for your example of professionalism at work for all of us to follow. Thank you for loving your precious Victoria and your children and grandchildren as we watched your family grow. Your stories of your adventurous life entertained us for so many years! Your last text to me was to love and cherish our time with our grandchildren and that was always the allegiance of your heart❤️ Family first. There are not enough words 💔”

Mary Beth Evans (Kayla): “With such a heavy heart, I can’t really find the words today about the passing of this sweet, kind man. From the first day we met in the green room of Days of Our Lives in 1986, we were fast friends. Drake’s love and devotion to his forever sweetheart Victoria, his children and grandchildren was one of his most endearing qualities. Such a good, honest man. We are all in shock of the news we received yesterday. @drakehogestyn you will remain in my heart always. Sending so much love to you.❤️”

Greg Vaughan (Eric): “This [posted photo] was our last time together, giving a set tour of Days of Our Lives to family and friends of mine. And a few of our final messages. Drake was more than just a family man; he always made time for anyone & everyone! He was a wonderful storyteller, and most importantly, a loving and caring person. As a father figure to me and many of my costars, we shared our love for sports, and he always wanted to hear about my son’s life & sports! On set, Drake was never short of being a scene stealer but an amazing way of making everyone in the room feel loved, supported, and valued. It’s still hard to believe that he passed away a day before his 71st birthday. Like John Black, only Drake could have orchestrated such a dramatic exit. As I know he would want us all to celebrate his life and hold on to our fond memories. His voice will always stay with me, leaving a lasting impact. Happy Birthday and I love you, Drake. Godspeed ❤️”

Bryan R. Dattilo (Lucas): “Yesterday Heaven got the best 3rd baseman of all time. Drake lived 70+ years and fell one day short of 71. Today is that day. Happy birthday my idol and may you rest in peace.”

Christopher Sean (Paul): “I will always love you. You were more than just my tv father, in my eyes you were my dad. Thank you for everything you taught me and the love you gave me. The world lost a true Hero. Miss and love you so much Drake. Rest in Peace Dad. ‘Keep Swinging for the Fences.’ Drake Hogestyn.”

Kyle Lowder (ex-Brady; Rex): “Drake Hogestyn was not only my TV dad, he was a real-life father figure to me. I began my career as a nervous 19 year old kid on @dayspeacock , having just moved to LA, and right before our very first scene he grabbed my shoulders and said, ‘I got you kid.’ And he had me. Every step of the way. Drake was one of the kindest, most generous men I’ve ever known, with an unparalleled enthusiasm for life. It’s brutally hard to accept the reality of his passing. I will deeply miss you, Drake. The world has truly lost one of the best. #drakehogestyn #daysofourlives #dool”

Galen Gering (Rafe): “I was lucky enough to go on a special trip with Drake and represent Days in S Africa. We went from Johannesburg to Cape Town and had moments where thousands of people cheered for us to times walking on deserted beaches. The one constant in it all was Drake- always just awesome to be around. We laughed so much. I mean, my face hurt every day. We were in his element, surrounded by people and animals. The energy he had was contagious and people gravitated towards him. He always took time for everyone and made them to feel special. Drake was always such a great storyteller and I knew at some point on that trip we were creating one he would eventually tell. This adventure would be a square added to the extraordinary quilt of his life. One of the things Drake would often say among his many ‘isims’ was ,”…well that was a below average feeling.” And as I sit here and write this I can definitely relate. Thank you for the memories and the good times and being an incredible steward for the show. You are loved and you are missed. Sending my condolences to your beautiful family I know you cherished beyond measure. Rest in Peace my friend.”

Wally Kurth (Ned): “Im trying to find the words to express my deep sadness on Drake’s passing. He was a special man. So passionate about life, his family, his storyline sand the stories he would tell! He had a lot of them. Drake loved his job and all his fans. And we loved him. 🙏. 💔”

Dan Feuerriegel (EJ): “He was such a beautiful man. Always made me feel welcomed and part of the family. My deepest condolences to his family, friends and those who’s lives he touched ♥️”

Charles Shaughnessy (Shane): “Baseball and life can be brutal and heartbreaking. The very best of us can be struck out way too soon. I didn’t get to work with Drake as often as I would have wished, but it was always so much fun when I did. Just thinking of him in an odd moment would bring a sudden smile to my face: it will always do so. Love you, man. Sleep with the Angels.

Thaao Penghlis (Tony/Andre): “We shared much over the years John Tony & Andre. Great stories were told. To his family, to Deidre & Days so sorry for ur great loss. We will remember him well even though our hearts bleed. Drake thank you & May this next journey be one of great enlightenment. RIP”

Ariane Zucker (ex-Nicole): “Gentleman. That is the first thing I would say about Drake. A TRUE gentleman. Integrity, respect, kindness and love. He was truly authentic.”

Genie Francis (ex-Diana; Laura, GH): “So sad to hear of Drake Hogestyn’s passing. Such a wonderful and kind man. It was a pleasure to work with him. I always loved how much he loved his wife and children.

Eileen Davidson (ex-Kristen/Susan et al): “When I heard the news about Drake Hogestyn’s passing I felt kicked in the gut. A truly one of a kind. So kind, hilarious & talented. Loved his family so much. I know he’s up there telling one of his many stories. Thanks for the laughs Drake. I’ll always love and miss you. XO.”

Staci Greason (ex-Isabella): “I awakened this morning to some very sad news. Drake Hogestyn was a wonderful person. He took me under his wing when I started on days of our lives and he never let me fall. He was funny and a hard worker. He always used baseball analogies because he played for the Yankees in the minors. He joked around with me a lot, especially during our love scenes. We were always laughing and had a deep affection for one another. He was the big brother I never had. My first and only tv husband. My heart hurts. All of my love goes out to his wife, Victoria, the love of his life, and their four children and seven grands. His many loyal fans. And his family on days of our lives. Drake, your playing in the majors now. Much love to you my friend ❤️.”

Crystal Chappell (ex-Carly):Sending prayers to the Hogestyn Family. Drake was a lovely man ❤️ 🙏.”

Jen Lilley (ex-Theresa): “I am absolutely gutted by the news of Drake Hogestyn’s death. Though our relationship on screen was anything but civil, we had an incredible relationship off screen. When I went back last year, Drake was the first cast member to see me. He grabbed me and we gave each other the longest and tightest hug and then got in trouble for breaking Covid protocol. 🤣🥹 we didn’t care. We loved each other so much. There’s just not enough wonderful words to describe Drake. He was such a role model to me on and off screen. Intelligent, funny, a team player, a wealth of wisdom, and the best hugger. Hug your loved ones tight today. #ripdrakehogestyn you’re a legend 😭😭😭😭😭 PS I looked for an hour for my favorite photo of me and Drake but I can’t find it. He’s giving me a legendary hug with the cheesiest smile. Ugh. I loved this man 🥹😭 #days #dool”

Cary Christopher (Thomas): “I am so heartbroken to hear about the passing of Drake. I won’t forget how excited he was to talk to me about baseball when I told him I was playing Little League. What an incredible person he was and I am so shocked and sad. My heart goes out to his family 💔”

Matthew Ashford (Jack):Dear Drake  your love of family and friends of your love of this show we have all shared makes this an all too close loss. You are loved my brother 🩷”

Tamara Braun (Ava): “What an honor it was to work with you, to get to know you, to hear your incredible stories. Your kindness and generosity of spirit were always exemplary. Your work ethic, your life ethic, family ethic…. Oh how you loved your family so deeply. I loved to watch your face light up while speaking about your wife, kids and grandkids. You beamed. My heart hurts the most for them. What a loss.💔 I’m so grateful that Days put you, me and Stephen together recently for a fun filled caper story. The three of us laughed so much while we ran lines, while we shot, while we played. We just laughed, laughed, laughed. What a treat. I will cherish that time and the memory of you. You, kind sir, sure did love life and knew how to enjoy all its gifts. Boy did I admire that in you. You are already greatly missed. Much love and respect always, Drake. 🩷🕊️⏳”

Michael Easton (ex-Tanner): “Mourning the loss of our friend Drake Hogestyn. Drake was talented and kind and a true gentleman. On my first day on set, I had no idea what I was doing and he knocked on my door, introduced himself and welcomed me to the show and I’ll never forget how much that meant to me. He loved talking about his family, dogs and baseball and he was loved by all who knew him. My deepest sympathies to his family, his friends, the cast and crew of DOOL and all of his fans. Rest in peace, brother. #drakehogestyn #dool”

Kyle Brandt (ex-Philip):I am so sad. Drake was the best. The best. I had a storyline with Drake in 2003. I was the clueless neophyte. He was the venerable legend. And he could not have been cooler, more helpful, or more wonderful. I am so sad.

Lamon Archey (Eli): “Condolences to the family, friends, and fans who’ve watched Drake dedicate almost four decades to #Days. He will be missed. Heaven got a real one. Godspeed 🕊️ 💙”

Julie Dove (ex-Connie): “Thank you for sharing your talent with us Drake. You will be missed.”

Kassie DePaiva (ex-Eve): “I’m so saddened by this news. One of the kindest people I have ever worked with. What an amazing life he lived. He will be missed. He made the world a better place. RIP Drake 🙏🏻”

Colton Little (Andrew): “Drake 🤍 thank you for welcoming me into the Days of Our Lives family so openly. Thank you for your stories, your pats on the back, your advice, your professionalism. My heart goes out to your family, your fans, and to everyone in Salem ⌛️”

Andrea Barber (ex-Carrie): “Although our time together on Days of Our Lives was short, I’ve never forgotten your kindness and charm. Rest peacefully, Drake. ❤️🕊” https://www.instagram.com/p/DAhOPrty88D/?hl=en

Mike Manning (ex-Charlie): “Sending prayers and love to the family of Drake Hogestyn. He was a talent, a gentleman, and most of all a good human being. RIP Drake 🙏🏼”

Farah Fath Galfond (ex-Mimi): “What a sad night this is. He was so kind and genuine in every interaction…with a zest for life, his work, and all his millions of fans. But his biggest passion was always, by far…his family. And that was the most touching thing about him. Rest peacefully, Drake Hogestyn.”

Darin Brooks (ex-Max): “Man… This one is too soon… I had the pleasure of working with Drake and in passing for only a few years back on @dayspeacock and honestly, everyone is saying the exact same word that I feel about Drake… GENTLEMAN… He was the true epitome of the word… kind, soft spoken, welcoming… I remember him coming up to me on my first day (first real acting job ever) and just being kind and welcoming to me and talking about baseball…Thank you for that… I wish we got to play more on set… All our thoughts and prayers go out to the Hogestyn family… RIP in that great big baseball field in the sky…❤️”

Billy Warlock (ex-Frankie): “I am absolutely shocked and saddened to hear about Drake. Drake was an amazing man and such a stud. The list goes on and on. He was Superman to me. He will be sorely missed.

Former Head Writer Sheri Anderson: “From the day I saw his audition for John Black, to the last time he warmly hugged me at the Days studio, with that twinkly smile of his, Drake was the embodiment of the man other men want to be, and the man women want to love and be loved by. His remarkable good looks disarming, he was kind, funny, compassionate, goofy at times, a man of passion, strength, the ultimate protector. The deep love Drake had for his family and children extended to his family at Days. We are all better for having known him. Rest in Peace, Drake — you will always rest in our hearts.”

George DelHoyo (ex-Orpheus): “Simply put, Drake was as gracious, kind, patient and generous a man as I’ve known His ultimely departure is felt as a deep loss to all who have had the privilege of sharing the stage with him. God hold and keep his sweet soul. And to you, his beloved family, I send my deepest condolences and love. Our world was better for him.”

Charlotte Ross (ex-Eve): “My heart is broken… 💔 He was such a beautiful soul… 🙏🏼”

Robert Scott Wilson (Alex): “An absolute legend and an incredible man. Will forever be missed and honored. 🕊️🤍”

Lindsay Arnold (ex-Allie): “Truly the sweetest, most welcoming man. Lucky and honored to have known him 🤍🤍🤍”

Lucas Adams (ex-Tripp): “A wonderful and beautiful human being. It was a pleasure to have known you. ❤️❤️Rest in peace Legend.”

Kate Mansi (ex-Abigail; Kristina, GH): “Heaven’s not ready for ‘Story Time,’ Drake, they don’t know how good they’re about to have it!!!” ⚾️⚾️⚾️

Camila Banus (ex-Gabi): “RIP to the legend and super star @drakehogestyn. It was an honor to work alongside you. To hear your stories and jokes. To be in your presence.”

Stacy Haiduk (Kristen): “I cannot say enough great things about Drake! I am so sad you have passed! But I am grateful to have know you and all the beautiful stories you have told us all!!! To the family, my condolences to you! Much Love and Light to all! ❤️🥲❤️”

Paul Telfer (Xander): “The ultimate team player. So supportive, and so much fun. Devastating loss to this genre”

Victoria Grace (ex-Wendy): “Oh my goodness. I’m so so sad to hear this. I’m honored to have worked with him. Just the nicest guy. RIP Drake❤️🙏”

Soap Star Pals Pay Tribute

Nancy Lee Grahn (Alexis, GH): “My deepest condolences to Drake Hogestyn’s family, friends and fans. What a lovely, lovely gracious man.”

Doug Davidson (ex-Paul, Y&R): “God’s speed, Drake. @DrakeHogestyn” and in another post, “I am so saddened by this news. May God shower him with His grace and comfort all who loved him . Rest in peace, Drake.”

William deVry (ex-Julian, GH et al): “Just seeing the news on Drake Hogestyn. RIP Drake. I know a lot of people are very sad this evening. Condolences to all who loved him. Family. Friends. Fans. #DaysCommunity #Days Been a rough few years in Daytime.”

Kin Shriner (Scott, GH): “RIP Drake a good guy ,crossed paths a few times over his great run on @DaysPeacock.”

Jon Lindstrom (Kevin, GH): “I don’t think you could find anyone who had ever met Drake Hogestyn, who didn’t like him. I didn’t know him well, but our paths crossed many times. Every time I found a warm, accessible, friendly and very, very funny man. The world is a lesser place without his kind. R.I.P.”

Maurice Benard (Sonny, GH): “such a great guy always happy. I didn’t know him that well, but every time I saw him just great.”

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